Sometimes in life we lose sight of what we have, what we have accomplished, and what we really want in life.
Now is a great time to take stock of your life and figure out how 2012 will be different (or just more of the same). And if you would benefit from some assistance with how to improve the quality of your life, or if there are old habits holding you back from achieving true happiness, contact me and let’s talk. There are many ways we can make your life more satisfying.
In the meantime, consider this story that I recently uncovered in my clippings folder. The original author is unknown, but I have typed it here exactly as I found it.
A group of alumni, highly established in their careers, got together to visit their old university professor. Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life. Offering his guests coffee, the professor went to the kitchen and returned with a large pot of coffee and an assortment of cups – porcelain, plastic, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite – telling them to help themselves to the coffee.
When all the students had a cup of coffee in hand, the professor said: “If you noticed, all the nice looking, expensive cups were taken up, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it is but normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress.
Be assured that the cup itself adds no quality to the coffee in most cases, just more expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink. What all of you really wanted was coffee, not the cup, but you consciously went for the best cups…and then began eyeing each other’s cups.
Now consider this: Life is the coffee.
The jobs, money, and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain Life, and the type of cup we have does not define nor change the quality of Life we live.
Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee…enjoy your coffee.”
Be well ~
Shawn Marie Howe
